At Wits' End

Italian Sausage & Pepper Pasta

2012-02-06T18:19:00.000-06:00

Italian Sausage and Pepper Pasta

This is one of those easy meals that has so many variations. It does call for red wine but being an alcohol free home I just omit that.

1/2 pound uncooked turkey sausage, Italian style with casings removed
2 teaspoons extra virgin olive oil
2 medium yellow peppers, cut into strips (I like to use yellow, green and/or red for a little color variation)
1 medium uncooked onion, thinly cut (I have found that using green onions works well and those onion-dislikers in the house to not mind them as much)
1/2 cup red wine
1 1/2 tablespoons minced garlic
28 ounce can crushed tomatoes, fire roasted garlic is suggested, do not drain
1/2 tablespoon crushed red pepper flakes (or to taste)
1/4 teaspoon coarse table salt (I prefer using sea salt)
8 ounce uncooked whole wheat pasta (I use whole wheat and rainbow rotini combined)
1/3 cup fresh basil, chopped

Bring a large pot of lightly salted water to a boil.

Meanwhile, to make sauce, in a large nonstick skillet over medium-high heat, cook sausage, stirring and breaking up meat with back of a wooden spoon, until cooked through, about 3 to 5 minutes; remove to a plate.

Heat oil in same skillet. Add yellow peppers and onion; cook, stirring frequently, until vegetables are lightly colored and crisp-tender, about 5 minutes.
Add wine and garlic; cook until most of liquid evaporates, about 1 minute. Add tomatoes, crushed red pepper, salt and browned sausage; bring to a boil. Reduce heat to medium-low, cover and simmer until vegetables are tender and sauce is heated through, about 10 minutes.
While sauce simmers, add pasta to boiling water and cook according to package instructions. Drain pasta; return to pot. Add sauce and basil; toss to mix and coat. Yields about 1 1/3 cups per serving.

A few notes: I use different meats. pork Italian sausage and venison work well with this recipe. I also may add fennel for a bit of zip to the flavor. The sauce is great over rice, too.

I Am The Mother of an American Soldier

2012-01-14T14:59:00.001-06:00

I give my complete and unwavering support to my soldier. As my daughter serves the people of the United States, so I humbly offer up my prayers for her safety and the safety and health of those she serves beside. I respect her choice to adhere to a strict moral code and system of values that has preserved our great country for over two centuries. I accept that my soldier's first duty is to her country and I understand that this sacrifice she willingly makes is what keeps our nation great. I will never expect anything but the best from my soldier for I know she is capable. I know that a soldier's heart is true and strong, and that my soldier will endure. I will never abandon my soldier, my daughter, my love. I will love her unconditionally. She will know I am there for her, even when she is alone. I am disciplined, emotionally and mentally tough, learning to wait for phone calls and letters or emails home. I, like my soldier, am an expert. I stand ready to do what ever I can do to let my daughter, my soldier, know that we are here for her, beside her, we love her and I will pray for swift destruction of the enemies of our country. I am the person who stood guardian of this woman who has become my soldier, now our guardian of freedom and the American way of life.

"I AM THE MOTHER OF AN AMERICAN SOLDIER."

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Under the Knife

2011-11-09T08:32:00.000-06:00

Just a super quick update this morning. At 12:15 PM I will be reporting to the hospital for the "fixing of the fixing."

At the end of September I ended up with an infection in the left tissue expander. Because of the infection the tissue expander was removed. After a few weeks to heal and a consult with the infectious diseases doc I was cleared to have the surgical repair!

Originally a simple tissue expander was placed. Saline was used to gradually expand it until the desired breast size was reached at which time the expander would be replaced with an implant. Because of the scar tissue from the removal surgery the skin will not stretch so a little more complicated procedure will be done. Just like with the right side a Latissimus Dorsi Flap procedure will be done. I'll be in the hospital for a couple days to make sure the flap takes.

Could that be the light at the end of the tunnel?

2011-11-04T19:13:00.000-05:00

This past Wednesday I saw an Infectious Diseases doctor. I was referred to her by Dr. Cantwell (my plastic surgeon) for the purpose of determining the status of my next surgery. As you might recall I ended up with an infection in my left breast tissue expander. On September 23rd I had it removed and since then have been healing.

This wasn't easy for me - which surprised me to be honest. But as I reflected and realized it had been 13 years since this all began I came to the conclusion that it was time for it to be over!

You can imagine how happy I was to be given the all clear from the Infectious Diseases Doc....and then it shot up to ecstatic when we were able to schedule the procedure. Soon the "fixing of the fixing" surgery will be happening. This time a Latissimus Dorsi Flap will be done which means I will have to remain in the hospital for a couple days.

I really think I can see the light at the end of the tunnel!

Halloween 2011

2011-10-31T11:17:00.000-05:00

Here is the Halloween 2011 photo album featuring Cailin and Joey! And, of course, Grandpa!

Halloween 2011

Trip to the Pumpkin Patch with Cailin

2011-10-16T18:12:00.000-05:00

Today we took Cailin to Berry Hill Farm for what we hope to be turns into our annual pumpkin hunt! What a wonderful place Berry Hill Farm is...a hidden jewel in Ramsey, MN. It was a fairly decent day. in the mid 50s but it was pretty breezy. Sure didn't dampen our spirits.

First thing we did was took the tractor ride! Cailin loved the bumpy ride through the fields and into the woods. She loved the scarecrows and tree people we saw along the way.

Of course we had to go on a treasure hunt in the maze! We wandered through looking for the golden nugget!

The farm animals were the next stop! Cailin loved the baby pigs and goats. I happened to have a preference for the camel and llama. The llama was very cuddly! The tongue in the ear wasn't something I was prepared for.....

Of course we also got to pick our own pumpkins! Some were a bit too big for Cailin. Some were just right!

Good bye Berry Hill Farm! We'll be back next year!

Perfect Evening

2011-10-04T21:02:00.001-05:00

Not many things can make for a better way to spend the evening. Cailin and I are the only ones home. We're both tucked in under the covers. After nibbling on Fig Newtons and watching some TV she snores quietly next to me. This is the life ... geez I love being a grandma!

Joey Update

2011-10-02T15:22:00.000-05:00

I wasn't the only one in the hospital at the end of September. Joey was admitted for "Failure to Thrive" (FTT).

Joey was born on August 6 weighing 8 pounds 7 ounces. Over the following few weeks Mary Beth had been struggling to get him to take his formula consistently. Twice he was taken to the hospital for dehydration not to mention the numerous trips to the clinic. Each time "nothing" was found to be wrong with the exception of possible gastric reflux. He was prescribed various meds with the final one being Prevacid.

On Friday, September 16, Joey was seen at the clinic for his second time having Thrush. He was seen by a general practitioner and not his usual pediatrician. This doctor was extremely worried that at 6 weeks of age Joey had only gained 4 ounces. On Thursday, September 22, Joey was admitted to the hospital after some of his blood work came back with concerning results.

Once at the hospital it took a full 24 hours for Joey to start taking the bottle consistently. Up to this point he would take an ounce and then be done. After some very careful observations by dedicated nurses and doctors it was determined that his jaw was a bit on the small side. They tried various types of nipples until one was found to work for him. Once he became more comfortable with the size and shape of the nipple he began to take his bottle like a pro. His formula was also changed until they found one that didn't seem to make the gastric reflux worse.

Joey is now a healthy 10 pounds 1 ounce ... just where he should be!

A Stumble on the Road to Recovery

2011-10-02T14:55:00.000-05:00

I found myself back in the hospital on Friday, September 23rd. The previous few days I had not been feeling well and saw my family doctor on the Wednesday before. All symptoms pointed to an upper respiratory/sinus infection and the antibiotics seemed to be relieving the symptoms by Thursday afternoon. I was ready to get back to work the next day.

Friday morning came with a shock - the lower half of my left breast (the one with only a tissue expander) was swollen, flame red and hot to the touch. The surgeon's office got me in right away and once the doc saw it (and by now it had spread) I was sent to the hospital for IV antibiotics.

I was really heart broken to find out that the infection had progressed to the point where the antibiotics alone would not work and only by removing the tissue expander would the issue be resolved. At 6:00 PM I underwent a surgery to remove the tissue expander with debridement of the area. By Saturday afternoon I was released and sent home with strict orders to rest.

It was really hard for me to realize that I would be starting the reconstruction process all over again on that side. There was light at the end of the tunnel to my recovery and now it dimmed a bit.

Amazing how a person can seemingly look past what really matters sometimes. I know I should be grateful that the infection was stopped. I should be grateful it didn't spread to the right side. I should be grateful it didn't go systemic...and I am grateful! I really am! But I'm also tired of being lopsided.

Jelly Bean Joey

2011-10-02T13:26:00.001-05:00

Our little Joey sure feels better now that his feeding issues are resolved!

Cailin's New Digs

2011-08-14T19:12:00.000-05:00

Today a very kind friend gave Cailin her kids' outgrown play house. Grandpa and Cailin cleaned it up before placing it on its foundation in the yard.

BIG UPDATE!

2011-08-13T12:49:00.000-05:00

It has been far too long since I have made an update to the blog! So much has happened! Where to begin?

Joseph David Ritchie

The biggest news to share is the birth of Joey. Cailin is a big sister! And, once again, Mary Beth was phenomenal during the birthing process. Grandma, not so much...but I'll get into that later.

Joey was born on Saturday, August 6 at 2:47 PM. He weighed in at a nice 8 pounds, 7 ounces and 20 1/2 inches long. Cailin was also the same length but 2 pounds less. Imagine Mary's surprise! Grandpa's comment as Joey was delivered "Its a moose!"

Cailin is such a good sister! She is obsessed giving him kisses....which is interesting when she has an M&M face! Joey isn't impressed.

Cailin is also very good with sharing her attention with Joey and mamma. When Mary feeds him Cailin settles in on her lap and gentle strokes him. We've also noticed she is using more and more words since his arrival into the home!

The next big news: 2 days before Joey's birth I underwent the first surgery for breast reconstruction after my mastectomy back in 2009. I was actually released 2 hours after Mary Beth was admitted to have Joey. I'm healing well and within a year should have everything completed. I need one of those t-shirts that says "Under Construction."

For those curious about the specifics of my surgery:

On the left side I have a basic tissue expander - tucked under the chest wall muscles. Every week or so I will go in to the surgeon's office to have a small amount of saline added until it gets to the desired size (and Dr. Cantwell is deciding that so don't ask LOL). After the right size is reached I wait a few weeks and then have the actual implant put in.

On the right side I had a Latissimus Dorsi Flap procedure with a tissue expander followed by implant.The latissimus dorsi flap moves muscle and skin from your upper back when extra tissue is needed. The flap is made up of skin, fat, muscle, and blood vessels. It is tunneled under the skin to the front of the chest. This creates a pocket for an implant. The process is the same for both sides as far as the adding of the saline. It has to be done slowly to allow my skin and muscles to adapt to the increases.

More updates will come....still re cooperating and taking some frequent cat naps! I would say Basset naps but the basset we have is not a big napper. :o)

On a roll....

2011-07-09T21:50:00.000-05:00

April 2011

July 2011

Although it isn't that obvious I can see some difference in my weight between the two photos. In reality I have lost 20 pounds since the April photo was taken. As far as my tracking the progress (since June 10th) I have officially lost 18 pounds. Very nice!

Today I began a new exercise routine using my Wii Fit Plus and a great web site called www.wiifitroutines.com - it has taken the guess work out of "what to do" and "how to do it." Its great!

Forward march!

Cailin Just Because

2011-07-01T09:40:00.000-05:00

Cailin

2011-06-29T16:08:00.000-05:00

Cailin turned 18 months old on the 20th of June. Her development has been amazing! I forgot how fun it is to watch a child's curiosity when exploring their world!

At school (she is enrolled at Minnesota Renaissance School - a Montessori school) she had her first sprinkler day! She wasn't too fond of the sprinkler but loved running around in her swim suit!

Miss Karla did a great job of encouraging the hesitant toddlers to check out the sprinklers!

The students in the toddler room are encouraged to become as independent as possible in every aspect of their day. Lunch time is always a treat to observe! Cailin is getting better at using a spoon with her yogurt.

Mary Beth is so proud of Cailin's progress and we know we owe a lot of the credit to MRS. Not only for teaching Cailin the skills but in also helping the parents reinforce those skills at home.

Sweet Tea

2011-06-26T15:34:00.000-05:00

One of Perry's favorite summer beverages is old fashioned Sweet Tea. Southern style. He came to love it when driving over-the-rad in the south-eastern states.

You can't buy the stuff he adores in a mix. It can only be home made. And it is really quite simple!

Seep 6 tea bags in 2 cups of boiling water. I do it for 15 minutes to 1/2 hour to really pull out the flavor. I use regular old Lipton brand tea bags but do occasionally throw in 1 tea bag of peach, lemon/honey or another flavor for a hint of added taste.
Stir in 1 cup of sugar and mix until dissolved. This is optional and a sugar substitute can be used instead. Sometimes more and sometimes less is acceptable.
Add a pinch of baking soda. This will cut the "bite" that tea can sometimes have.
Add 6 cups of cold water and ice cubes to the mixture you've created. I only use water and add ice cubes when I pour a glass.
Put in the fridge and let it chill!
Pour yourself a glass and enjoy!

See? Told you it was easy! And you'll love it!

2011-06-24T17:35:00.000-05:00

Can you believe it? 11 pounds so far! I've been working so hard at this ... what an awesome pay off! THANK YOU Weight Watchers (and Sally my guardian angel who got me here).

I'm finding that it is easier than I once thought. As long as I have a ton of fruits and veggies, drink my water and move my body it all falls into place. Oh sure I get hungry. A LOT. Baby carrots are my friends. I've made some awesome salads and am starting to get use to chicken breasts. I am not a fan of chicken so its been a struggle. Give me a big old steak, beef ribs, thick juicy hamburger and I'm a happy girl. And it showed in my arms, thighs, the triple chins....

About a month ago I was started on meds to help with the general pain from the fibromyalsia. It has started to kick in so moving about has gotten much easier! Today I mowed the front lawn in under 45 minutes. Quite the feat for me! Walking with the kids at school to the park, not to mention taking Bones on his daily walks (and the training) not only are helping the weight loss but make me feel generally so darned good! Nothing like falling into bed exhausted for a darned good reason!

I am happy to say that David is now employed! He started this past week at the Super America in Ham Lake. So far he seems to enjoy it. I'm enjoying the fact he is finally making some money so he can start helping mom and dad a bit with little things like his phone payment....rent...food...

Perry finally got his truck. He found a '97 Chevy Silverado Xtra Cab and was able to do a little wheeling and dealing. The down side - he traded in my beloved Suburban. I'm going to miss the old girl. But that loan has been paid off and they payment on the pick up is literally half what were paying on the 'burb.

Perry claims this is his "midlife crisis." Some midlife crisis considering he has a car seat in the back seat!

Its Friday afternoon and time to lounge in the freshly mowed front yard and watch Cailin tear around the place!

Carry each other's burdens.....

2011-06-24T17:09:00.000-05:00

Galatians 6:2 (NIV) says Carry each other's burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.

I admit that I am not good at this. Over the last couple years with all the things going on in my life I have found myself floundering in my own needs and "burdens." Yesterday I was given the opportunity to do just that.

On her way home from job club Mary passed a couple young men on the side of the road with a sign that read, "Our dog is out of food." With them was a black dog...she thought it might be a Lab. She was shaken to the core by this and asked if we could help. She picked me up and I rode with her to determine if this was a believable situation.

I found two guys roughly in their early to mid 20s. Each had an overly stuffed duffle - Army surplus style. They were filthy and I could smell them from 100 feet away. Their story (and later confirmed by a very generous Police Officer) was that they hopped off the freight train and were going to hoof it into Minneapolis to catch another one. Apparently getting on is easier than getting off without being caught. They were not technically homeless - as they explained - because they had chosen to hit the road from the east coast and find jobs at farms ... and panhandle which wasn't going well (enter the Officer who decided NOT to arrest them for having a sign asking for money).

With them was a 4 year old Staffie named Satan. He was gorgeous and very friendly. Allegedly a rescue dog. Poor guy was indeed thin but not emaciated. Yet. And they were out of dog food - for the 4th day. The photo below is NOT Satan but could be his twin.

Of course Satan had food allergies - specifically to corn, wheat and soy. A bag of Pedigree wouldn't do. I ran into PetCo and found a decent food for him that was rather inexpensive. I presented them with the 5 pound bag and gave them strict instructions to feed him small amounts at a time since it had been a few days since he had eaten. I also suggested that they not go over the 2 cups as suggested on the bag....he wasn't that underweight and they needed to make it last. I also commented on how I wouldn't give them food...it was their choice to be out on the road but not the dog's. That made me angry. They were directed to the food shelf and off we went.

I know some people may roll their eyes that I consider this "carrying someone's burden." But the fact of the matter is this beautiful dog is one of God's creatures and HE indeed had a burden: no food and being drug across the country in freight trains! OK, I will admit the name "Satan" had me a bit hesitant.

Both Mary and I felt better about what we did. Oh sure, they could have been a couple losers that lived down the street - but the dog needed food. That in itself was obvious.

Tornado!

2011-06-21T17:01:00.000-05:00

On the way to pick David up from work we were able to watch a "small" tornado as it crossed from Coon Rapids, into Andover and then going north.

This video was shot driving west on Hwy 20 going from Ham Lake towards Andover. On the way to get David the tornado was to our south. On the way home it was to our north. With David driving I was able to get some pretty neat shots!

After a pretty heavy rain fall we made it home safe and sound to find NO damage in our area. IF the reports are correct it sounds as if the tornado missed the house by a hair!

This week

2011-06-18T12:22:00.000-05:00

That is the good news! I've been following the Weight Watcher's Points Plus program and WOW! 7 pounds in 1 week! I know this will not be the norm. After all, I tend to be super motivated that first week and going over and beyond in following the plan. I have a lot of weight to lose and I know if I don't do it the right way it will backfire. Focusing on good foods to eat is the key! And I am learning that I actually prefer fresh veggies over pretty much anything else.

Except Coffee Heath Bar Crunch ice cream.

Wonderful week at work! I'm honored to work with a great group of kids. I primarily have the "latchkey" kids - those entering 1st grade and older. I also grab the kids going into kindergarten, too. Every day we take a little walk to the park. We even got to feed the ducks and geese at the river.

Bones continues to be a Bone-Head. Puppies! But he keeps us constantly entertained and protects the house.

Cailin is an amazing little creature! Her most recent favorite activity is walking around kissing everything. And I do mean everything. Even the kitchen rug isn't left out from her affection. Cracks us up. She is 18 months old on the 20th of this month.

Hope everyone has a wonderful weekend and HAPPY FATHER'S DAY to my dad! Love you dad. I'll be calling.....

2011-06-11T12:38:00.000-05:00

This is the new food "pyramid." Thanks to Anna for telling me about it. She been a wealth of information in assisting me with my eating healthier goal. I started Weight Watchers (and a HUGE shout out to Sally S for this) and the PointsPlus system is amazing! Its so nice to wonder which yogurt to chose....all I have to do it get onto the Weight Watchers app on my phone and compare brands.

Back to the "My Plate" deal. Doesn't it make more sense when you can see it like this? I mean I can identify with a PLATE a little more than a pyramid.

But my question is...why is it more expense to eat healthier than it is to eat quick and rotten? No wonder so many people (kids included) are over weight and generally unhealthy.

Off to calculate points for the picnic we are going to! I'm bringing fruit to share...its all ZERO points!

Really???

2011-06-08T17:21:00.000-05:00

Put a frownie face on this post. Let the picture tell the story:

I started Bones (our Basset puppy) in Obedience 1 class a couple months back with the intentions of having a well behaved dog, getting more active in the Greater Minneapolis/St. Paul Basset Hound Club (of which I am the web master and secretary) and getting more active myself. As my luck would have it I ended up with a back/hip injury that stopped that in an instant. You see...Bassets with short legs often need the person to bend over to reach them. Wasn't happening. Now that the medical aspect has been "figured out" I'm pushing forward with the training more diligently. This afternoon we did some training. In fact, you can read all about it at Bad To The Bones: Training Revisited.

We took some photos to help show our progress...and then the horrible reality hit me. I mean WHO IS THAT training my dog?!? Surly couldn't be ME! OK, so it is. And OK, so I need to do a bit of training on myself.

I think the photos of Bone's training progress will also help watch MY progress at my own training.

Little bits at a time

2011-06-08T14:29:00.000-05:00

First - I am happy to say that the blog is now mobile browser friendly! Woo hoo! OK, maybe only exciting for us geeks...but still!

Over this last weekend we started re-landscaping the front of the house.

The before picture:

The after picture:

I think Perry did a great job!!

Chicken Cordon Bleu Casserole

2011-06-03T10:08:00.000-05:00

Another family favorite newly discovered. Perry loved chicken cordon bleu but I have not had the patience to make it let alone attempt it. Paula Deen has a great recipe for an easy chicken cordon bleu.

Ingredients

2 tablespoons butter

1/2 large onion, chopped (about 1 cup)

2 garlic cloves, minced

2 cups shredded cooked chicken

3/4 cup prediced ham

1 cup uncooked long-grain rice

1 1/4 cups chicken broth

1/4 cup milk

1/2 teaspoon salt

1/2 teaspoon ground black pepper

1 cup freshly grated parmesan cheese

Directions:

Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Spray an 11x7-inch baking dish with cooking spray.

In a medium saucepan, melt butter over medium-high heat. Add onion and garlic; cook until onion is tender. Add chicken and ham; cook until heated through. Add rice, and cook 1 minute, stirring constantly. Stir in chicken broth, milk, salt, and pepper; cook 2 minutes.

Pour mixture into prepared baking dish. Sprinkle with cheese. Cover and bake for 45 minutes or until rice is tender.

2011-06-01T09:25:00.000-05:00

Every once in awhile I find a poem that says something to me. This one came to me as part of a remembrance for loved onces lost to Breast Cancer.

Though you cannot see or touch me, I will be near
And if you listen with your heart, you will hear.
All of my love around you, soft and clear.
Then when you must come this way alone,
I will greet you with a smile and a welcome home.

~ Unknown

Rhubarb & Recipes

2011-05-29T16:21:00.000-05:00

Its spring time and the rhubarb is growing like weeds. Of course my brand new puny plant isn't producing yet. Might be because of the attack of the weed eater? I was saved from a spring without rhubarb by our neighbor who offered some of his! Thanks Chuck!

Yesterday I tried a new rhubarb crisp recipe. It tasted great and would have been better had I thought about adding vanilla ice cream. Or maybe even Cinnamon ice cream.

Rhubarb Crisp

RHUBARB FILLING

4 cups chopped fresh or frozen (thawed) rhubarb
1 cup sugar
2 tablespoons cornstarch
1 cup water
1 teaspoon vanilla

Place rhubarb in an 8×8 pan or divide between 6 ramekins.
Mix together sugar and cornstarch in a small saucepan, stir in water. Bring to a boil. Remove from heat and stir in vanilla. Pour over rhubarb.

CRISP TOPPING

adapted from Fresh with Anna Olson

1/2 cup flour
1/2 cup rolled oats
1/2 cup brown sugar, packed
1 teaspoon cinnamon
pinch salt
1/2 cup chopped walnuts
5 tablespoons butter, melted

Mix together flour, oats, sugar, cinnamon, salt and walnuts. Stir in melted butter until even distributed. Crumble over filling.
Bake at 350ºF for 45 min or until rhubarb is cooked through and filling is bubbly.

Makes enough for an 8×8 inch square (9 inch round) baking pan or 6 ramekins.

Rhubarb bread is a family favorite. I really don't have one recipe I like best. I've found things I like about all the different ones I've tried. This particular recipe is one of the best.

Rhubarb Bread

Ingredients

1 cup milk
1 tablespoon lemon juice
1 teaspoon vanilla extract
1 1/2 cups brown sugar
2/3 cup vegetable oil
1 egg
2 1/2 cups all-purpose flour
1 teaspoon salt
1 teaspoon baking soda
1 1/2 cups chopped rhubarb
1/2 cup chopped walnuts
1/4 cup brown sugar
1/2 teaspoon ground cinnamon
1 tablespoon butter, melted

Directions

Preheat oven to 325 degrees F (165 degrees C). Lightly grease two 9x5 inch loaf pans. In a small bowl, stir together milk, lemon juice and vanilla; let stand for 10 minutes.
In a large bowl, mix together 1 1/2 cups brown sugar, oil and egg. Combine the flour, salt and baking soda, stir into sugar mixture alternately with the milk mixture just until combined. Fold in rhubarb and nuts. Pour batter into prepared loaf pans.
In a small bowl, combine 1/4 cup brown sugar, cinnamon and butter. Sprinkle this mixture over the unbaked loaves.
Bake in preheated oven for 40 minutes, until a toothpick inserted into center of a loaf comes out clean. (I found it took mine an additional 20 minutes to be done - 1 hour total).

Perfect Day

2011-05-28T22:03:00.000-05:00

Today was a beautiful day. Great way to start the Holiday weekend!

We sat outside in the warm sunshine. Cailin explored her big backyard and hung out with her mom and cousin Candace.

We worked on the garden.

Even the dogs took the time to relax and enjoy the sunny day.

We finished off the day with a cozy bonfire.

Another visit with the Oncologist

2011-05-28T12:58:00.000-05:00

Grandma and Cailin - December 20, 2010

Oh the memories. The photo above was taken the day Cailin was born. It was also just a few days before my last chemo treatment. Seems like a lifetime ago and I am so happy to report that I've now struggled with bad hair days!

Yesterday I had a visit with Dr. Garino at Minnesota Oncology. For the most part it was a very positive visit. My lab values are good and she has no real issues after the physical exam. We spoke about a set of lab work Dr. Marier (my GP) did a couple weeks ago. One result was elevated and between that and the other million tests the conclusion was that Fibromyalgia is an appropriate diagnosis. I'm happy she agreed. Fibromyalgia is a frustrating diagnosis and having two medical professionals with the same opinion makes it a little easier to consider.

One issue is the continued weakness and now increasing pain in my hip and legs. The Arimidex I take daily is known to cause joint stiffness which makes sense for my hands and knees in particular. It's the odd pain we are wondering about. Dr. Marier is considering it a possible symptom of the fibromyalgia. He prescribed me Amitiptyline which has been found to be effective with easing the pain associated with Fibro. Dr. Garino has ordered an MRI (scheduled for next Friday) just to rule out a cancer recurrence in the hip (NOT worried about that) and to also see what could be going on in my lower back and hip. She will order Physical Therapy after we get the results to help me get my strength back and to limit the pain.

I guess it's all good - except I detest the idea of another MRI. Hate it! Hate it! Hate it! Yes, I'm a chicken but this chicken has versed! I'll update once I get more results!!

Monterey Chicken Tortilla Recipe

2011-05-24T14:04:00.000-05:00

Monterey Cheddar Chicken

This is going to be a family favorite! Everyone enjoyed it when made for the first time. It is quick and easy so a recipe right up my alley! The following would be for a 1 quart (or 9x9) casserole/dish. I double it for my family. Serve with rice!

Ingredients:

2 cans of chunked chicken or turkey

I used 2 boneless chicken breasts cut into bite sized chunks. I then cooked them on the stove top in a little lime juice. Be careful to not overcook or the chicken will dry out.

Tortilla Chips

Any kind can be used. I used Tostidos Brand "Hint of Cracked Pepper."

1 can cream corn

1 can Black beans, drained

3/4 cup Picante Sauce/chunky Salsa

1 can sliced black olives, drained

1 cup cheddar cheese

fresh tomatoes, chopped

Green or Red Peppers, chopped

Shredded lettuce

Sour cream

Directions:

Layer crumbled chips (enough to cover the bottom), chicken, cream corn, drained black beans Picante Sauce (or salsa), olives and cheddar cheese in a 1 quart dish. (I used a cake pan when doubling). Bake at 350 for 40 minutes. Allow a few minutes to cool. Serve with fresh tomatoes, peppers, lettuce and/or sour cream.

Catching up

2011-05-17T20:03:00.000-05:00

Happy middle of May! At least I think its May. This weather has been crazy! One day the heat is on and the next day the air conditioning is on and then the heat again with frost warnings. Good grief! But, it looks as if spring is finally here!

The Victory Garden

The Victory garden continues to bloom. I can't wait until next year when it fills in a bit. We'll add some more tulips in the fall now that we can see where to ones we planted have appeared.

Hummingbird planters & feeder

I saw a hummingbird the other day at the living room window. Thought it would be neat to add a hummingbird feeder. You can see it hanging in front of the window. On either side of it are those silly Topsy-Turvy Hummingbird planters. I found them super cheap and thought I'd give it a try. I planted Nicotiana and hopefully they'll take and begin to grow. At the bottom of the Shepards hook you can see three pots. I planted dill, heather and catnip in those. Right behind that you can see the iris' growing in!

Topsy-Turvy Hummingbird planters

This is a closer view of the planters. Interesting to think it is suppose to work and grow upward. Well, we'll see!

Cailin - Easter 2011

Cailin is doing well. She started the toddler program at Minnesota Renaissance School (the Montessori school I work at). What a blessing this has been for her and us! I wish I had been turned onto Montessori when my three were young!

Cailin - May 17, 2011

This is Cailin today (17 months old). Check out the road rash on her nose. She gained a little more momentum than expected on the driveway and slid face first! Oh - the hazards of learning to walk!

Bones

Bones. Don't let this picture fool you! He is NOT normally looking so cute being all sleepy on the couch. He is all 7 months of puppiness. We started obedience but ended up putting training on hold due to my back/hip injury. He is pretty good at the sit. He is pretty good at the recall. Everything else? Forget it! I'll continue working with him and start training again in June. I;m excited for Sunday....it is BBR's Spring Into Summer event and there will be an agility demo. I've meet the training doing it at the dog park so he is familiar with Bones and wants to try him with agility! He certainly has the energy for it!

Kal'l

This adorable little guy is the newest addition to the family! No worries...he isn't mine! Anna and JT are the proud parents of Kal....a 6 week old black lab. They were looking for a dog that would be very active to keep up with them. eventually he will be active. For now he just sleeps. He's just a baby!

Coming up next.... the Spring Into Summer recap!

Dedication & Mother's Day

2011-05-08T19:41:00.000-05:00

Happy Mother's Day!

Today didn't go exactly as planned but it was a blessed day nonetheless. I had planned on participating in the Susan G. Komen Race for the Cure....but that was not possible because on my back/hip injury. With that said - I ended up raising over $500 for the Race for the Cure! That makes me proud!

Cailin was dedicated at church today! It was amazing. What exactly is dedication? No, it isn't baptism. Here is what our church, Constance Free Evangelical Church, says about dedication: Public child dedication to God is based scripturally from Hannah's dedication of Samuel (I Samuel 1:19-28) as well as Mary and Joseph's dedication of Jesus (Luke 2:21-22). It's a holy time of heart commitment by parents who desire to offer their children as a living sacrifice to the Lord - for His use and glory.

After Paster Randy asked for the parent's promise to be dedicated to making sure their child is raised in the Lord's family he blessed the children and our celebration continued (as Cailin went to the nursery - she was getting a bit crabby).

Afterwards we had Perry's mom over for dinner. After a glorious morning....and then a rainy afternoon...the sun is now out this evening making it quiet and peaceful. Life is good. God is good.

Tulips!

2011-05-08T19:24:00.000-05:00

I love tulips! They are my absolute favorite! Here are a few shots from the victory garden we put in last fall.

Wild for Wildlife

2011-04-30T11:21:00.000-05:00

I love animals. I love watching animals. I feel so blessed to be living in the time where web cams can be used to watch various animals in their natural habitat.

On of my favorite live web cams to watch is at the North American Bear Center in Ely, Minnesota. During the winter and early spring there were two web cams: one in Lily's den (where we were able to watch her and yearling Hope as well as the birth of Jason and Faith - the cubs born in 2011) and a den at the NABC where the two of the resident bears (Lucky and Ted) spent their winter. Now that the bears have left the dens the "Pond Cam" at the NABC is up and running.

Live TV : Ustream

Within the last few days the Minnesota Bound Loon Cam has been activated! The Loon Cam is at the nest of a common loon family in central Minnesota. It has been exciting to be able to watch the eggs being laid and the hatching. Last year neither egg hatched (not that momma and daddy Loon didn't try) so we hope this year there will be success. as of this writing no eggs have been laid yet and I suspect momma is out celebrating her freedom one last time. Click here to get to the Minnesota Bound Loon Cam.

Here is a video from last year just to get an idea of what you can see.

Here is the Decorah (Iowa) Bald Eagle nest cam:

Live Broadcasting by Ustream

If you are wanting to check out some of the various web cams you can check out UStream's Pet & Animal category page. You name it they probably have it....even baby owls which are possibly the ugliest little creatures as newborns.

Easter Glory!

2011-04-25T10:20:00.000-05:00

Easter morning dawned bright and beautiful! The day started with a very emotion provoking service at church. Without fail the words of Pastor Randy found their way into my heart.

Tulips in bloom - gift to my Step Mom

After hanging around the house for a bit (Perry had to replace the heater in the car) we headed off to Aunt Rita's for dinner. As always the food was wonderful! The company was pretty amazing, too!


Lisa & Carol chit-chat

As usual Cailin was a little princess! She really liked great-great Auntie Rita and Don! She looked adorable in her pink polk-a-dot dress.

Of course we can't have a family gathering without the obligatory photo shoot!


The gals

The guys


Dad & the kids

Here are some other photos from Easter 2011:

Hope everyone had a joyous Easter!

Cailin starts school!

2011-04-21T07:15:00.001-05:00

On Wednesday (April 16) Cailin turned 16 months old and was able to start school! She is in the toddler program at Minnesota Renaissance School. Here she is at the table having breakfast.

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Sunshine in a storm

2011-04-19T14:46:00.001-05:00

Its been a tough last couple days but I feel a bit uplifted. This is a beautiful bouquet my friend, Jannette had delivered to work.

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Growing

2011-04-18T09:35:00.000-05:00

I am happy to report that I have mostly success with the recent plantings!

The Victory Garden is coming along nicely. In fact there are more sprouts since this photo was taken 3 days ago! Can't wait for the tulips to bloom!

The Mammoth Sunflowers after only 1 week! I'm going to have to transplant them pretty soon to bigger peat pots! Mammoth indeed!

In this photo we have lettuce (closest to front), broccoli and cauliflower. Can't believe how they are growing!

So sad

2011-04-13T19:40:00.001-05:00

For a bit over a year now I have been following Lily the Black Bear. Lily is one of many black bears in Minnesota being followed by the Wildlife Research Institute at the North American Bear Center in Ely. She and her cubs (Hope, the yearling, and the 3 month old twins Faith and Jason) have captured the hearts of thousands of people throughout the world because of the live den cams and the Facebook Group. Lily and Hope are radio collared making it a unique opportunity for researchers (and the rest of the world) to really learn about black bears up close and personal! It has been an amazing experience to watch the births of all three cubs live....to listen to them play and cry and nurse. To watch them grow and eventually leave the den with momma once the snow started melting.

Jason - 3 months old

Just today we (the Lily fans) found out that Jason, the only male cub, had died. It is heartbreaking....it feels like I've lost my own little pet and I know the feeling is shared by many many from all over the world. Yes, it is the circle of life - but it still hurts.

Here is an article of interest: Lily's Cub Dies; DNR and Researches at Odds.

As of this time it seems that the DNR has taken possession of Jason's body. The researchers had wanted to do a necropsy to determine the cause of death in hopes of possibly finding some information that may help in the research. I (along with the other 131,183 Lily fans) am hoping that in the end the DNR will come through and let the WRI have access to the info. If they do I will update!

But - I'm just sad right now. Poor little guy.

UPDATE: DNR confiscates dead bear cub from Ely researcher

At Wits' End Gardens

2011-04-09T14:10:00.000-05:00

Step one of the creation of At Wits' End Gardens complete! I've successfully managed to get all the seeds started! Whew! I'm hoping I have enough space to plant them! We have a lot of variety for this years garden. I know I will need to limit how much of each thing we grow but I wanted to try things out and see what works and what will not.

Here is what we will be attempting to grow:

Rutgers Tomatoes
Roma Tomatoes
Cherry Tomatoes
Big Jim Chilli Peppers
Green Peppers
Broccoli
Cauliflower
Buttercrunch Lettuce
Crimson Sweet Watermelon
Pickling Cukes
Cucumbers
Green Onions

These will be planted directly once it is safe:

Winter Squash
Sweet Corn
Radishes
Peas
Green Beans
Carrots
Rhubarb

In the herb garden:

Cilantro
Marjoram
Thyme
Rosemary
Sage
Oregano
Dill
Basil
Catnip
Garlic

Flowers:

Hollyhocks
Poppies
Sunflowers
Lavender
Morning Glories

Landscaping Projects

2011-04-09T13:25:00.000-05:00

What an overwhelming feeling it is to step back and see how much we have to work on. The nice thing is that we are going to do things without a lot of expense. So much potential! This summer we will focus on the front yard. Pretty much anything we do in the backyard this year may just turn into a toy for Bones. By next summer he will be much better at not exploring everything by attempting to chew it up!

One of the first projects will be to work on the mailbox. Right now there is a border around it (as you can see) that is coming up. It is filled with rock. The border is in good shape so we'll just pull it up and put it back properly, clean out the rocks, and throw a little soil in. I have started some Heavenly Blue Morning Glories that will look nice climbing up the trellis and mailbox post. I may also plant some tulips or another perennial as well to add a bit more color. This may not be the best place for a perennial simply because it is very close to the road so gets a lot of salt and stuff that is put down on the road during the winter. I'm still thinking that part through.

The next project will be the "Victory Garden" Perry started for me last fall. This is just a small triangular shaped area along the edge of the driveway and road that he planted tulip bulbs I purchased from the Susan G. Komen foundation. Yep - pink Breast Cancer tulips! So far I can see a few of them coming up. I also found some purple tulips (sitting in the tray in the photo) that I will be adding. I wanted to see where the bulbs are that Perry already planted. A border of some type will be added. I'm thinking of a small stone border like the stone crescent edgers on sale at Menards this week. Nothing too fancy and easy to mow and rake around (that would be Perry's request more than mine). I can't wait to see what comes up this year!

This photo shows the area to the left of the front door. Right now it is rock filled with no border. The rocks will be removed and used in the backyard (as soon as David starts doing it). I'm hoping to have my herb garden here. I've started a variety of herbs to see what works and what doesn't. This is the year for trial and error. Perry wants to remove the two stumps you can see but I'm thinking they can stay and be used for something.

The photo to the right shows the front of the house that is to the right of the front door. Its looking rather junkie right now. Again, it is filled with rock which we will remove and relocate to the backyard. You can see the various Basset themed statues. And a bunny thrown in for some fun! I have 3 day lilies already planted there. Got them for a steal late in the season last year and I was pleased to see they survived the winter and are coming up. I know they tend to spread over time and that will be okay. They are closer to the house so there will be some room for the other flowers I am hoping to plant. IF it goes as planned in front of the lilies I will plant a row of Four O'Clocks (which are suppose to grow to 24" to 30") and in front of that a row of Poppies (with an expected height of 12" to 24"). We'll see how it works!

We have no sidewalk from the driveway to the front door. I suspect that may have something to do with the fact the well is directly under the front step. We decided to grab some of the larger garden blocks that were in the backyard to use as "stepping stones." Obviously you can see they are not quite put in the right way. We'll get them dug down and spaced a little better. One is cracked so it will need to be replaced and we will need one more for sure. The good thing is that the design is a standard one and readily available at Menards. Although they are not that expensive it is just nice to be able to utilize what we already have and avoid extra expense.

The rest of the front yard isn't too bad. Except for the darned leaves! You can see that behind Perry on the property line between us and the neighbor there are some trees. Those are lilacs! I have always wanted lilacs and now we have a whole line of them between us and the neighbor that runs to the back of the property! As Perry was raking along the fence line he noticed something coming up. The little green sprouts look to be deliberately planted and not grass. Time will tell what they could be. I just don't recall anything growing there! Of course, Perry tends to mow down anything that gets in his way so chances are I just never had a chance to see it.

This is the area of the backyard where the rock will be relocated to. There use to be a cement pad here that was removed with the idea of putting in a deck. We will use landscape timbers to frame the dirt area off and fill it with the rock from the front yard. Because this is a low area water tends to pool when it rains and during the snow melt. It is also the area the dogs come in and out of the house. Putting in grass just might be a no-win situation. We'll put the rock in and down the road we can still put in a deck. For now it will at the very least clean up the area and (hopefully) limit the amount of mud that the dogs drag in. I can't wait to get this area cleaned up. This is where the puppy likes to drag his very special prizes he has found....as in the solar lights that use to be in the backyard, the half burned logs from the fire pit...

This area is looking out the patio door. Right now its filled with rock but we'll probably move the rock with the rest. I'm thinking of either a really neat flower garden or even a sand box for the grandbabies! Still contemplating that.

So, this is the beginning of what looks to be a very fulfilling summer of projects! As time goes on I will be showing you the progress!

Cailin helps at school

2011-04-08T09:22:00.000-05:00

Today Cailin got to spend part of the morning with Grandma! We are all very excited that she will be starting at Minnesota Renaissance School in the toddler program when she turns 16 months old!

Doing work in Grandma's room

The First Sign of Spring

2011-04-07T17:16:00.002-05:00

Something is growing in my Breast Cancer victory garden!

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Sunny afternoon with Cailin

2011-04-06T18:58:00.000-05:00

These videos were taken on a beautiful spring afternoon (April 2011) with Cailin at about 15 1/2 months.

Grandparents again

2011-04-02T12:45:00.000-05:00

Our family will be welcoming a new member sometime in August. Mary is expecting baby #2 in the middle of the month. Yesterday I went with her to her ultra sound appointment. It was very apparent that she will be having a boy! This is an exciting time for the whole family!

Here are a few more ultra sound photos. Click on the album below to see more!

Baby Boy

Seedlings - Day 1

2011-03-29T20:40:00.000-05:00

Tonight Perry and I planted a few things. We did the green peppers, chilli peppers, Basil, Hollyhocks, Four o'clock and poppies. Next weekend we'll probably do the tomatoes.

We set up a little "green house" in the basement with a grow-light hanging above it. This area also happens to be the area where we feed the cats. Bella in particular seems to be very interested in the plantings. We used double sided tape to attach the containers to the tabletop so neither Bella nor Milo will push them off. Hopefully. That would irritate me a bit.

I think I'm also going to have to make double sure the cats don't rub on the light and knock it off the make-shift chain hanger its on!

The next step will be to get another grow light to hang for the other two starter boxes. And now I wonder if I have enough starter boxes!

In addition to the cats being potential irritants in the growing process I'm a little worried it might not be warm enough yet for the seedlings to grow downstairs. One of two options I'm thinking...I know I read one could use a heating pad on low with the starter boxes on top (possibly a towel in between) or we could use a space heater. If we used the heating pad the ability to stick the containers to the tabletop is no longer an option. Heating the entire basement for just a few little seeds seems kind of ridiculous as well so I need to contemplate this a bit and monitor the temp for a day or so. Or, I suppose we could move the grow boxes to the office!

Day One - the seeds are all nestled in their beds.

Time to Garden!

2011-03-29T17:35:00.000-05:00

Yes, it is only March 29th but it is Spring! I'm anxious to start gardening...of course the snow on the ground hampers things a bit.

This photo shows the back right side of the yard that will be used as the garden. Last year I did manage to grow some tomatoes and squash...except Snickers ate them before I could harvest them. This year we will plot out a 24' x 24' area to begin with. Perry is going to fence it in to keep the hounds out. The hounds will keep the rabbits out. We've got the starter seeds and all the needed equipment.

Perry stakes out the garden

I am not known for my green thumb but I am so excited to learn! We use to have raspberry bushes but someone (ahem, Perry) dug them out thinking they were thorn bushes. I am hoping to plant some rhubarb. Doesn't Rhubarb pie sound wonderful? Chuck next door plants a row of corn along the fence line and I think I may do the same thing (of course risking Perry running it all down with the mower).

The next step is to plan out the garden and start the seeds. The U of M Extension has a great web site called Planting the Vegetable Garden with information specific to Minnesota gardening. In reality I think if there were a book called "Gardening for Dorks" it would be right up my alley but I'll go with this one for now!

So, wish me luck on my endeavor!

Big Decision In The Making

2011-03-26T14:56:00.000-05:00

Over the last few weeks I have had this very aggravating head ache. It is centered in the back of my head....almost as if you could draw a line from ear to ear. Went to the doctor who diagnosed a sinus infection. The antibiotics did indeed help! At least it cleared up the sinus infection.

But that pain in the back of my head was still lurking. So he suggested an MRI considering "my history." Yeah, but no thanks. I'm relatively sure it is NOT a brain tumor... a subdural hematoma or anything else creepy like that.

I became my own medical detective. Was it my new glasses? No comments from the peanut gallery but they ARE bifocals. I wore my old glasses for a week and the head ache didn't change. NOT the glasses.

Next thought...is it my prosthetic breasts? Did a few days without them (and let me tell you, it was NOT a fun experience for me at work) and I realized the head ache slowly went away. Interesting. Turns out the darned things are putting pressure in all the wrong places triggering shoulder and neck issues. It has been related to a woman who has breasts that are too large. Great. And they are even two sizes smaller than the original equipment.

Long story shortened....on April 5th I will be seeing a plastic surgeon to talk about reconstruction. I'm not going to get into all the psych reasons this will be a good thing. Let me just say this....as a women - how would you feel realizing you have no breasts or anything else that physically makes you a woman? Reminder....hysterectomy.

Back to the story. It's time. I need to really heal in some way and this is indeed a piece of the puzzle. Gaining back some of my identity - as a woman. Riding myself from the constant pain. OK, so it isn't that bad compared to what some go through but in MY reality it just plain sucks.

More to come. The saga continues.....I just want, no NEED to feel a little more whole again.

Bad to the Bones

2011-03-22T20:04:00.000-05:00

Meet Bones - the newest addition to the Ritchie pack. Bones is almost 5 1/2 months old. He was born on October 11, 2010.

Ok! Ok! Before anyone says it...I do recall screaming "I DON'T DO PUPPIES" more than once in the last, oh, 10 years. And I meant it! Seriously! I was content loving the senior bassets who needed a quiet, comfortable and loving place to spend their twilight years.

We lost Snickers at the very end of December. After a bit of time we really started feeling lonely for a basset. I also need to "do" something in life and have put my mind to training - going as far as I can with him. Bones just might be a basset agility star!

If you want to keep up with the tails of Bones you can check out his blog: Bad To The Bones.

Italian Style Hotdish

2011-03-10T10:22:00.000-06:00

The photo really doesn't due this meal justice! It is so easy and I really do not measure ingredients....but you'll get the idea:

1 pound Italian Sausage - browned thoroughly with garlic and onion.

1 16 ounce box pasta (I used penne style this time but the family loves the bow ties as well) - cooked and drained.

2 jars of your favorite alfredo sauce. I used Classico Roasted Garlic.

6 ounce can of sliced black olives.

1 large can of diced tomatoes, drained. I used diced tomatoes with garlic, lime juice and cilantro added.

2 cups cheese - My favorite for this is Italian 6 cheese but whatever you like will work.

Simply combine all ingredients in a large pan or dutch over. Salt and pepper to taste. What I enjoy most about this dish is that I add anything else that might sound good like pepperoni pieces. You could throw it into the oven for a bit at 350 to heat it but I prefer to just heat on the stove. Top with grated Parmesan cheese at time of serving. Really goes great with garlic bread!

Counting our blessings

2011-03-09T09:49:00.000-06:00

You may notice the trailer hitch isn't facing the right way. Of course, neither is the bumper for that matter. Mary was at a stop light ... the middle of 3 cars who were at a complete stop. Car number 4 smacked into car number three who smacked into Mary who smacked into car number one. Cars three and four are totaled. Car number one has a small dent in the back bumper. The truck has a crumpled frame in the rear and the damage you can see in the picture. Mary and Cailin (who was securely in her car seat) are AOK. They did get checked out medically as requested by our insurance. With Mary being pregnant everyone wanted to make sure all was well with everyone. Thankfully she was in the Suburban. I have a feeling things might have been a little messier had she been in the Cavalier!

Quick Polish-Style 1 pot meal

2011-03-07T09:16:00.001-06:00

I made a quick and easy cold weather comfort food for dinner on Saturday. It was a hit (well, with Perry at least):

Cut 1 - 2 pounds kielbasa into medallion sized pieces and brown in a large dutch oven or kettle. I throw in a bit of butter while it browns.

Remove the browned kielbasa but do not discard the drippings. Add 1 cup chicken broth to the drippings and heat to boiling. Add 1 head of cabbage (cut up) and fresh garlic (to taste) to the broth*. Mix well.

Layer on top of the cabbage frozen potato and cheese pierogies (available frozen at most stores), and the browned kielbasa. Season with salt and pepper to taste. Cover and simmer stirring occasionally until cabbage is softened and pierogies are headed through.

* I usually just eyeball the amounts of the various ingredients. Other ingredients that can be added: onion, carrots, etc.

"Knit Your own Dog"

2011-03-02T09:20:00.000-06:00

Are you a knitter? Check out Knit Your Own Dog on Amazon and find the patterns to 25 "best-of-show" breeds. Here is my favorite (of course) the Basset Hound!

Skype

2011-02-26T19:16:00.000-06:00

Do you Skype? Skype is a free way to do chats and/or video calls with people around the world. We just spent the evening doing a Skype call with Anna. She was able to give us a tour of her home...while being able to see and talk to Cailin! It is an awesome way to stay in touch and feel connected. If you want to Skype with either Anna or myself:

anna.lynn,adler - Anna's Skype user name

l.m.ritchie - my Skype user name

Anna & JT's New Home

2011-02-13T14:11:00.001-06:00

Here are some photos of JT & Anna's journey to their new home! Beginning at Fort Jackson (Columbia, South Carolina) and ending in Savannah, Georgia. If you click here you will go to the web page for the apartments they .live in called The Springs of Chatham Parkway.

Cailin's Afghan

2011-02-13T12:48:00.000-06:00

I'm working on an afghan for Cailin. I have a photo below to show the pattern and the colors I chose. Can't wait for it to be done! I just finished another one but can't show that one off util the recipient sees it! This one is a basic shell pattern and will be about 46"x46" once completed.

Irish Friendship Bread

2011-02-13T12:41:00.001-06:00

Some refer to this as Amish Friendship Bread - but since I am more Irish than Amish I have elected to rename it! I have made this a number of times when given the starter but this is the first time doing it by scratch. Here is the recipe:

1 (.25 ounce) package active dry yeast
3 1/4 cup warm water (110 degrees F/45 degrees C)
3 cups all-purpose flour, divided
3 cups white sugar, divided
3 cups milk

Directions

In a small bowl, dissolve yeast in water. Let stand 10 minutes. In a 2 quart container glass, plastic or ceramic container, combine 1 cup flour and 1 cup sugar. Mix thoroughly or flour will lump when milk is added. Slowly stir in 1 cup milk and dissolved yeast mixture. Cover loosely and let stand until bubbly. Consider this day 1 of the 10 day cycle. Leave loosely covered at room temperature.
On days 2 thru 4; stir starter with a spoon. Day 5; stir in 1 cup flour, 1 cup sugar and 1 cup milk. Days 6 thru 9; stir only.
Day 10; stir in 1 cup flour, 1 cup sugar and 1 cup milk. Remove 1 cup to make your first bread, give 2 cups to friends along with this recipe, and your favorite Amish Bread recipe. Store the remaining 1 cup starter in a container in the refrigerator, or begin the 10 day process over again (beginning with step 2)

Mr. & Mrs. Adler

2011-02-01T11:34:00.002-06:00

On January 31, 2011, Anna and JT got married! Congratulations! We are very proud of you!

Oncologist Visit

2011-01-27T15:42:00.000-06:00

I saw Dr. Garino yesterday (January 26). It had only been 7 months. Yes, I know! I know! Far too long to wait in between visits but alas, it is what it is! And, to be honest, I was just feeling a bit off-kilter about things and needed a break.

Things are fine. She did notice right off that I have some lymphedema in my left arm. Lymphedema is a blockage of the lymphatic system. Basically the lymph fluids collect and do not drain appropriately. Because I had lymph nodes removed this can happen. I'll be going to Sister Kenny Institute for some rehab. Should prove to be interesting!

I mentioned a few posts ago that I had osteopenia. That is when the bone density is lower than normal but not quite to the point of osteoperosis (so...I'm not as dense as I thought). The Arimidex I am on (treatment for breast cancer) is known to decrease bone density and I've been menopausal for 10 years which also doesn't help. We considered the use of meds to help increase the density but have decided to wait a ear. I will be taking the vitamin D as well as Calcium supplements. Exercise is also a HUGE help. And not smoking. So....we
ll see what I can take care of on my own before adding one more drug to the mix.

Other than that is seems all is AOK! I'll be seeing Dr. G again in 4 months (a compromise between her 3 months and my 7). I'll post about the lymphedema treatments in February!

Beekeeping in Minnesota - in January

2011-01-27T15:03:00.000-06:00

Beekeeping in Minnesota - in January

This is a very interesting Blog to follow!

Interesting Study on Breast Cancer

2011-01-24T20:21:00.001-06:00

Smoking slightly increases the risk of breast cancer, a new study shows - USATODAY.com

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Anna & JT

2011-01-23T17:37:00.000-06:00

Anna will be graduating from AIT on January 31. After that she is will be going to her duty station - Hunter Army Air Field in Savannah, GA. JT will be joining her in Georgia and they will be getting married! They promise us a big wing-ding party once they come home in about a year or so. We are so proud of both of them!

Gigi goes home

2011-01-22T22:46:00.000-06:00

Since mid November (2010) we had the honor of fostering Gigi. She is a basset (?) mix rescued by Basset Buddies Rescue, Inc. and the Central Dakota Humane Society.

This news article details the rescue of 200 dogs after their "owner" was evicted from the farmsted she rented - leaving all of the dogs abandoned without adequate food or water.

Gigi was a mess when she came to us. Afraid of her own shadow. Afraid of the leaves falling from the trees. Afraid of the sound of the telephone ringing. Afraid of the television. Her instinct was to run and find safety. Thankfully she bonded to Perry. It took her nearly a month to finally become comfortable enough with me to stay in the same room without barking and growling. In fact, her barking and growling soon turned into a game and over time we watched this frightened creature slowly begin to become a dog learning how to play, trust and relax.

One fear was never finding the perfect family to adopt her. How long would she be with us? We really weren't in the market to adopt another dog. Thankfully we did find that perfect family and today we met them at the PetCo store in Eau Claire, WI. It was absolutely heartwarming to watch her shyly investigate this new family. Gigi was always wonderful with other dogs so we knew meeting her new basset "cousins" wouldn't be a problem. It was hard for me to watch her pleading eyes watch Perry as he walked away. I could see her anxiety level begin to climb and at that moment I felt that it would be best if I left as well. No matter what it is hard to say good bye. We did really love her. She was fantastic with Cailin! She was the silliest little character....but we know in the big picture adopting another dog right now isn't the right plan. She is where she needs to be. And that is what makes the little heart ache worth it.

Bear's First Christmas

2011-01-21T20:20:00.000-06:00

In honor of the birth of Lily the Black Bear's two new cubs Cailin and I read one of my most favorite books: Bear's First Christmas. As I read the story we listened to the gentle noises coming from Lily's den as she, her yearling Hope and the new babies cuddled together.

Bear's First Christmas

written by Robert Kinerk

Illustrated by Jim LaMarche

YouTube - lily has new baby!

2011-01-21T16:25:00.000-06:00

YouTube - lily has new baby!: ""

Lily the Black Bear

2011-01-20T20:12:00.000-06:00

The most amazing thing is happening as I write this. Lily the Black Bear (who came to fame last year after giving birth in her den via webcam to an amazed WORLD WIDE audience) is quite possibly in labor again! It was unusual but she went into heat last spring even though she'd just had a cub. Now she is in her den with her yearling (Hope) and may possibly be adding 2 or 3 more little ones to the family!

Can't really blog much right now in fear of missing the blessed event!

Check it out!! The webcam to view the bears in the den LIVE is and you can get to it by clicking here!

To learn more about Lily, Hope and the other bears here are a couple awesome sites:
The Wildlife Research Institute
The North American Bear Center - Ely, Minnesota

Genetic Testing

2011-01-17T19:13:00.000-06:00

At the beginning of December I had gone to see my Genetic Counselor (Denise) to finally pursuit the testing. Basically, there are two genes that have been found to suppress tumor development - BRCA1 and BRCA2. Obviously there is more to the story (and if you click here you can read the thrilling details) but lets just simplify it by saying that by testing to see if there is a mutation of either gene than it can be said there is an increased rick of developing breast cancer and/or ovarian cancer.

Why would I care at this point? It is more of a curiosity for me at this point. I've had 3 non-related primary tumors giving me about a 30% chance of having a mutation (no comments from the peanut gallery, please). I would have thought the risk was higher so that in itself was interesting to me. IF I ended up with a mutation the biggest issue would be to look into ovary removal
which has already been done so that is just another "fun fact" for me.

My motivation was for my kids - and, yes, this included David because there is a thought that a positive BRCA1 or BRCA2 mutation in the family could increase his chance for prostate cancer...not to mention if he has children they could be at an increased risk of breast cancer.The most urgent reason for the testing was for the girls. If I tested positive they would want to be tested AND they would need to begin screening early (10 years before my diagnosis so when they are 23). The screening for them at this young age is not the mammogram but breast MRI.

There are three basic test results: Positive for a mutation, negative for a mutation (both of which are very concrete answers) or the good old "we don't know" result...which I ended up having. The test showed something not necessarily normal but also not something ever seen before. Until the same result is found while testing others there is no way to know exactly what it means and that could happen tomorrow or never.

I think it is pretty crazy - having three incidents of cancer at a pretty early age...no known history (I think I have some background that is pretty solid to trust in)...and no real reason. And I think 'reason' isn't really what I mean. Maybe 'insight' is a better word to use. But then again - even insight isn't going to change anything. It is what it is.

Microbial Zoos (Homemade Petri Plates)

2011-01-14T08:54:00.000-06:00

This is a super cool web site for kids who are interested in science! Check it out!

Microbial Zoos (Homemade Petri Plates)

23 days

2011-01-13T21:24:00.002-06:00

Today is the 23rd day since my last cigarette. In reality I had all but quit for a month or more before. I'd have one now and then. Not even daily. But day 23 from the very last one ever. I can breath. I can play with the kids at school. I can sleep. I'm not depressed from the physical lack of oxygen reaching my brain. It is such a brand new feeling!

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Thanksgiving 2010

2010-11-26T15:55:00.003-06:00

What a great day! Perry, Mary Beth, Cailin and Myself spent the day at Aunt Rita's house. We were joined by her boyfriend, Don, as well as Lisa and Joe. David was home resting up between shifts at Target and Anna was in South Carolina. We sure did miss her! Dinner was spectacular, as usual. Ham, sweet potatoes, mashed potatoes, corn, fruit salad, buns and nummy pumpkin pie! Here are some photos from our family dinner. Just click the photos below to see the rest of the album.

She's coming home!

2010-11-17T14:45:00.001-06:00

Woo hooo! Anna got her plane tickets home for Christmas Exodus today! What is Christmas Exodus you ask? Simply put, it is the break for the Holidays for those Soldiers in training (vs. those already assigned to a unit). She will leave Fort Jackson early on the 17th of December and take a bus to Atlanta. Its about a 5 hour trip. She will then take a flight from Atlanta to Minneapolis - arriving sometime around 11:00 PM that same night.

Anna will return sometime on the 3rd (I think) of January. I was actually kind of hoping it was the 2nd because we could take her to the airport.

She will graduate AIT on January 31st. Her MOS is 27D which is a legal specialist. She found out she will be stationed at Hunter Army Airfield in Savannah, GA. She is pretty excited. It is very close to the ocean and she has never seen that before.

Sunrise....Sunset

2010-11-07T15:02:00.000-06:00

2 simple words that express a million thoughts.

Sunrise - the 2 year old foster pup, GiGi, who has been placed in our home. She looks for safety and security for the first time in her life. She is timid. She has definite favorites (and I am not necessarily one of them). I watch her bouncing around our backyard - so obviously filled with glee at the prospect of her freedom to just "be" - nothing more expected of her. She carries a yellow rubber duck everywhere she goes - a gift from our 10 month old grand daughter who felt it more important to share than to fight this incredibly loving basset for ownership. Truth be told, GiGi brings it back to the baby more often than not. Her way to share and show her thanks I would think.

Sunset - can be expressed in 1 not-so-simple word: Snickers. This old lady basset has been with us for only a couple years. A gift, we think, from our beloved Bucksnort who has gone to the bridge. Bucksnort holds a very huge part of my heart (and my shoulder where he is permanently tattooed). When Snick came to us she was full of energy. Into everything, especially food related. She was a big girl - literally. Weighing in at a mere 95 pounds...all of it nothing less than love.

Over time she has been diagnosed with diabetes. She has lost weight and is down to 60 pounds. Her vision is gone because of cataracts. She no longer plays. Instead, she struggles to find a place to lay comfortably. Just this afternoon I watched her cry in the backyard - as GiGi ran circles around her - because she couldn't find her way back to the door. My strong, determined girl was lost in the yard she once knew so well. Bosco seemed to understand and kept running from her to the door - trying to lead her back.

My heart is broken. I know she still has some time with us - but it just isn't the same. Her sun is setting. She is often still. Too often quiet.

And then she does something silly like taking every cushion off each couch and chair in the livingroom looking for a forgotten morsel of food. Who needs to see? Just kick up that smeller and away she goes!

It is inevitable - sunrise and sunset. Can't avoid it. Can't skip it. Just have to sit back and appreciate what each has to offer.

Moving Forward

2010-11-04T16:11:00.000-05:00

A bit if time has passed since my last posting. Life has been busy and that is just AOK.

Anna is doing well. AIT (Advanced Individualized Training) has begun so in about 12 weeks and 3 days (not adding in her 2 weeks Christmas leave) she will be a legal specialist for the US Army! She is still at Fort Jackson and I think it comforts her a bit to be in familiar surroundings. If anyone wants her address just email me and I will get it for you. She really is looking forward to getting mail. Even though she can text and call she misses having letters from friends and family to read.

Quite the reality check when we start hearing about some of the Soldiers who graduated from BCT at the same time she did getting their deployment orders. Part of me thinks "already?" And another part of me fills with dread and fear for the ones we know are going over seas. In reality, no matter what the MOS they are all there to protect our country and are ready to go where told to. Its just hard for a mom to think about.

I want to also introduce you to our newest foster dog, Gi Gi! She is a Basset mix - ok, so some will say she is a "designer" breed. At least that is what the woman called her and about 199 other dogs that were taken from her property in Scranton, SD by the Humane Society at the beginning of October when she lost her home...leaving said 200 dogs also homeless. At the risk of going overboard I am not going get up my soapbox about this type of "breeder." Right now I have a hound in need of some tlc.

Although it is hard to see - GiGi has a rather significant cherry eye on her left as well as a blue tinged globe. The cherry eye will be fixed. GiGi is a little less than 30 pounds, which is hard to also see in this photo. The vet feels she is probably mixed with Dachshund. GiGi is very timid - possibly from a lack of human contact. Her house training skills have a bit of room for improvement. She adores Perry and Cailin and gets along wonderfully with our dogs. That is all good news. She has come a long way in the last week since she arrived in our home. I'm wondering if Perry will be able to give up his little girl when she finds her perfect forever home?

If you or anyone you know might be interested in a special hound like GiGi BBR has 12 more of them looking for forever homes! Check them out here!

Contact Anna

2010-10-16T15:01:00.004-05:00

If you want to leave a message for Anna please do so by emailing her at:

anna@lisa-ritchie.com

Fort Jackson & Anna

2010-10-16T14:58:00.000-05:00

Tuesday, October 12, 2010

The morning dawned bright and beautiful. JT arrived just before 7:00 AM and we loaded up and headed to the airport. Our flight was scheduled for 11:06 and left right on time. On the way from Minneapolis to Chicago we took a very comfortable "A320" Air Bus. It was the first flight for JT and the first in years for both Perry and I. Once we got to Chicago and ran to the other end of the world (or so it seemed) to catch our connection we had to chuckle at what was before us. Perry referred to it as the "puddle jumper." About half the size of the first plane. JT and I both were a tad bit nervous about this prospect.

In the end all was just fine and in fact we landed about 10 minutes early in Columbia, South Carolina! Our arrival was about 4:10 PM (Eastern time). The next stop was to get the rental car...and as it turns out we were "upgraded" from the economy model (and, frankly, I hate to image how small the economy model would have been after seeing the "upgrade") to a 2010 Kia Soul:

Once we got to the hotel (thanks to JT's iPhone navigation) we had just enough time to get freshened up and head to the Golden Corral restaurant for a get together of other 1-34th family members! It was a great time and Perry and JT were able to eat their fill at the all-you-can-eat restaurant!

Wednesday, October 13, 2010 - Family Day

At 10:00 AM we headed to Fort Jackson and Hilton Field for Family Day. Vendors line the area where you can purchase t-shirts, jewelry, videos, pictures, hats...anything you can think of to remember the occasion. They also had some of the vehicles used (Hummers, tanks, etc) on display. At 12:00 we sat in the grandstand waiting to see our Soldier. It was an awesome sight to see as they ran out of the woods, through colored smoke, and into formation.

After a brief introduction and a few rules for the day we were able to go onto the field and meet up with Anna. What a sight she was! It was so good to see her. Once we got to the car JT surprised her with a promise ring!

We then spent the rest of the day on Post. The main PX was jammed packed with Soldiers waiting in line for hours to get food from Burger King or Taco Bell for the first time in 10 weeks. The line at the cell phone stores was just as long. All the Soldiers had money to spend and the first thing they wanted were new cell phones! The rest of the day was spent touring the Post with Anna acting as our tour guide. Checked out the Museum and played some pool at Ivy Lanes. At 9:00 PM Anna had to be back and we headed back to the hotel.

Thursday, October 14, 2010 - Graduation

Another beautiful day in South Carolina! At 9:00 AM the Soldiers marched in and the ceremony began. Lots of introductions and presentations of awards. After the ceremonies the troops marched passed for their introductions. In the following photo Anna is in the 4th row (from front) - on the far outside (being squad leader).

Once graduation was done Anna was bussed back to the barracks where we met and whisked her off post. The day was spent shopping (of course), sight seeing the area and a well deserved nap at the hotel. We finished off the evening by taking her to Chipotle for dinner and then back to the post.

Friday, October 15, 2010

For me this was a very hard day to face. We were leaving that late afternoon and not sure if we would be able to see Anna one more time. As luck would have it - I was able to sign Anna out at 3:50 PM....we flew down the freeway and literally dumped her and JT off on the side of the road and made it to the airport by the skin of our teeth for the 4:53PM flight to Chicago. I admit I cried for a good part of that leg of our trip. I didn't want to leave Anna that way. But I knew she was with JT so that made it a bit easier...but only a bit. We finally arrived in Minneapolis at 8:00PM - 30 minutes early! The glass of Chardonnay Perry got me was well worth the $6! By 10:00PM we were home and cuddling Cailin and smooching on the hounds.

Here is the Picasa Web Album from our visit. Click on the photo to see the rest of the images!

Family Day & Graduation - Fort Jackson

Second Chances

2010-09-19T12:18:00.000-05:00

I've come to the conclusion that taking the risk at second chances is worth more than not. There is someone in our lives who has not lived up to their potential. Made mistakes. Really hurt us as a family. But the fact is this person will be in our lives forever. Rather than the struggle of remaining angry and suspicious...which has taken a toll on my emotions....I'm going to open up my heart and offer that second chance. Things have been changing for this person. The circumstances surrounding their life seem to have made a positive turn. An effort is being made. Yes, maybe I'll get hurt again. But maybe not. And that "maybe not" offers a lot of wonderful possibilities for more than just myself. Most of my family is very skeptical and not willing to "let it go." I'm tired of the fatigue that comes with not trusting and finding reasons to be angry. Resurrecting all the past incidents that hurt just to fuel that negativity. Too many good things happening in my life to have one thing hang that black cloud over it all.

Squad Leader!

2010-09-04T15:33:00.000-05:00

Just got a letter from Anna. Boy did it make my day! We had just sent her a couple care packages and I was really missing her. the letter was simply addressed to "Mom." How sweet!

She is very proud to tell us she is a squad leader! She says so far is has been okay - just needs to make sure all the others in her squad are behaving. She reports there are only two people who have a hard time not talking...and one of them is her! Go figure!! I'll be putting a couple more pictures on the "Anna in the Army" page in a bit!

1st real update on Anna!

2010-08-11T14:16:00.000-05:00

Posted on 1st Battalion 34th Regiment - Always Forward on Facebook (this is the group page for Anna's Batallion. She is is "C" company known as "Charlie Rock."

Family and friends of Charlie Rock, this week will be busy to date the Soldiers have completed Victory Tower, TDC, and some CLS training. Today we will conduct day and night land navigation and visit the NBC chamber on Friday.

~ Always Forward 1SG Charlie Rock

Additional info:

TDC - Teamwork Development Course - a series of complex tasks Soldiers negotiate as a team. The situations are complex and physically demanding. Soldiers are given minimal guidance and minimal equipment - but have to work together to solve the problem.

CLS- Combat Lifesaving Skills

NBC Chamber - Nuclear, Biological, Chemical Chamber

Storm!

2010-08-10T18:05:00.001-05:00

A rather quick and intense storm just blew through. Of course the lights flashed just enough to screw up the clocks! LOL Within minutes the rain stopped and it is beginning to clear. Here is a quick video:

Missed her call!

2010-08-06T20:38:00.000-05:00

Anna made her "I made it safely to BCT" call and I didn't get it! Thankfully she got hold of her dad.

BBR hound is a super star!

2010-08-06T07:42:00.000-05:00

You must check out this commercial for the Wisconsin State Fair - featuring basset Annie, a family member of Basset Buddies Rescue! Isn't she perfect?!

And she's off!

2010-08-06T07:05:00.000-05:00

Anna sent me a text yesterday letting me know her phone would be but away until she graduates BCT. She was packing and preparing to leave for BCT at 10:00 AM this morning. Kind of scary for me to realize I will not hear from her for quite awhile.But she is o excited - makes it hard for me to feel too down. I do miss her!

She was also very excited about the prospect of facing the Victory Tower this Saturday. Victory Tower is an exercise where recruits must navigate through several obstacles at extreme heights, including climbing and traversing rope ladders and bridges. They must then rappel down a 50-foot wall (back-first, with rope harness). (From Wikipedia)

Victory Tower, Ft. Jackson

Hey! Found some pretty interesting videos I wish I would have found before this! It is a three part series. The first one is about Reception at Ft. Jackson: Fort Jackson Reception.

Part two: Fort Jackson Basic Combat Training

Part three: Fort Jackson AIT

Anna will be sending info regarding her address soon. Once I have that I will certainly share it! I've already collected a few silly cards to send to her to brighten her day!

Anna update

2010-08-04T16:51:00.000-05:00

I've been blessed to be able to communicate daily with Anna. During reception she is still able to have her cell. This is a nice thing (for mom more than her). Sounds like things are going well - but she is very excited to start BCT (Basic Combat Training). She is scheduled to begin that on Monday (Aug 9). Shortly thereafter I will receive information regarding her address so we (and I do me WE) can all send her letters and cards. Apparently some of them get push ups for each letter received. Anna says she isn't great at push ups so maybe we can do our duty and show our support by sending her A LOT of card!

I have updated Anna in the Army with a little info as far as BCT. Don't forget to check it out!

Bummer - delay in beginning Basic

2010-07-31T09:03:00.000-05:00

Had a chance to chat with Anna last night. She says she won't begin basic for another week. Too many recruits so they have to extend her reception stay a bit.

Anna checked in!

2010-07-29T20:27:00.000-05:00

I just heard from Anna! They arrived safely in South Carolina last night. She says she hasn't slept yet. They are keeping her busy. She is excited that she got her boots! LOL What a kid. Can't wait to hear how everything unfolds!

Changes Are A Comin'

2010-07-29T20:24:00.000-05:00

Time for a little revamp on the blog. Things are changing quickly...Anna being in the army (I'm now a PAM Proud Army Mom). Cailin is getting bigger and bigger and life goes on! Patience is a virtue for me right now. I know what I want to do with the blog...just have to do it!

For now you will see there are different links to the "pages" just below the title. Just some new stuff I'm playing with. Keep an eye out and hang tight while I try to figure it all out!

Totally out of my mind

2010-07-27T13:12:00.002-05:00

Anna leaves for Basic today. OK, technically tomorrow - but today we drop her off at the hotel and she leaves in the morning. I just walked outside to see her holding her boyfriend close and crying. Crap. My heart is breaking for her - and at the same time being uplifted for her future success. I wish I knew how to feel right now!

Packing: My Worst Nightmare

2010-06-19T10:24:00.001-05:00

Next Friday we will begin moving to our new home! I am so excited. Time for a new beginning for our family! It has been a rough year and this move is going to erase all of that and give us a fresh and POSITIVE start in life!

BUT - before we can get that fresh start we need to pack. Good grief. After looking at all of the junk we have accumulated I am thinking we might qualify for one of those reality shows on TV about hoarding!

Mary Beth has really stepped up to the plate to help out. She has gotten a lot of things packed (even though I look around the house and wonder what the heck she did - just that much stuff). The kitchen is ready to go...the livingroom....I have been assigned my bedroom. Oh yuck! LOL

So - off to pack!! Hope everyone is having a GREAT weekend!

Article from the BBR Newsletter about Snicks!

2010-06-08T15:17:00.001-05:00

Happy Tails to you...

Join us each month as we feature a happy adoption tale of a BBR dog

Snickers

This month we are featuring Snickers, who was adopted by Lisa and Perry Ritchie and family in MN.

"In 2008, our family faced the sudden losses of our beloved Bucksnort (10/23/08) and Bullet #700 (12/6/08), not to forget our foster dog Kirby who went to the bridge just before Christmas of the same year. We were heartbroken and feeling rather raw about the addition of another basset to the family. This included a foster dog.

In January 2009 I received a plea for help from a family with a 12 year old female basset. Being the BBR Intake Coordinator for MN, I did the intake and was prepared to get this dog to a foster home. The family was facing the loss of their home resulting from a tragic medical issue. They had actually taken their basset to a vet to be euthanized....who would want a very over weight basset with a huge tumor on her eye? The vet asked them to wait and contact BBR first - which they quickly did. After all was said and done my husband and I decided we would take this girl just until "a new foster home became available."

On February 7, we met the transporter who had brought "Snickers" up to the Minneapolis area for fostering. What a sight she was! She was 95 pounds, wearing a gentle leader since they could not find a collar big enough to get around her neck comfortably with a HUGE mass on her eye lid. With the help of BBR the tumor was successfully removed from her eyelid and she was given a clean bill of health. Each day she began to take another part of our hearts.

Snick-ears.

We had never owned a female basset before. We've always had "our boys" and were very happy with that. Then one day someone approached us asking to adopt her - that is when the bottom fell out. We cried and we held her. How could we give this beautiful girl up? On March 31, 2009 Snickers became a Ritchie and joined the crew with Bosco #514, Bo #946 and Lhasa Apso Bailey. She immediately became a daddy's girl and was soon seen sporting a pink collar and carrying her pink purse!

Fast forward to Mother's Day 2009 - May 10, 2009...just 6 weeks after her adoption. We took Snickers camping with us. We awoke to find she had been sick over night. She was lethargic and not wanting to eat. She was rushed to the vet and when she was weighed we knew there was a huge issue. She had dropped from 95 pounds to 70 pounds within a month. Snickers was diagnosed with diabetes. As of this writing Snickers still struggles with high blood sugar levels. But we love her more than anything and we

Snickers and her Dad.

will work with her everyday to get her diabetes under control. She is such a joy! She makes us smile every morning. She makes us laugh every day.

Snickers has truly made our family more complete! She makes sure the foster dogs know who the boss is....and

then invites them into her pack.

Never will we regret adopting a senior basset. They have so much to offer - not only to their people but to the other dogs in the family! We thank BBR every day for the opportunity to have Snickers in our lives!"

~ Lisa Ritchie

Thank you Lisa and your family for adopting Snickers and giving her a forever home full of love. Also thank you for sharing her story with us.

Pride Running Amuck

2010-06-08T11:35:00.001-05:00

Tonight is Anna's graduation ceremony! I am so excited and her dad and I are so proud of her! She hit a couple road blocks along the way but she over came them all! Way to go, Anna!

In just a few short weeks Anna is leaving for Basic training with the Army. Hard to believe! I'm going to miss her!!

Here are a couple photos of Anna's last drill when they were repelling:

Random Ramblings

2010-06-08T10:40:00.002-05:00

I have spent the last few weeks reflecting on things. What has happened? What I could have controlled. What I couldn't control. Interesting, really. And I look at how things are NOW. Some of the changes make me sad. Some make me feel very lonely. Most make me feel uplifted and at peace.

It seems for some people going through cancer (or any other such thing) is just a speed bump that they can bounce over and go forward. I guess I just am not that kind of person. I actually found it to be a detour that did take me some time to get through. Wrap my head around.But I think I’m on the main road of life again. I wish I could be that person that didn’t basically freak out but I did do that a bit. Hey! I’m human and was a little scared!

I am so looking forward to the things coming up!! This is going to be an amazing summer…a season of change for our family in some very positive ways!

To those of you who stuck it out with me I thank you a million times over!

Nevertheless

2010-06-08T09:46:00.000-05:00

The Mastectomy Poems
12. Epilogue: Nevertheless

The bookbag on my back, I'm out the door.
Winter turns to spring
The way it does, and I buy dresses.
A year later, it gets to where
When they say How are you feeling,
With that anxious look on their faces,
And I start to tell them the latest
About my love life or my kids' love lives,
Or my vacation or my writer's block-
It actually takes me a while
To realize what they have in mind-
I'm fine, I say, I'm great, I'm clean.
The bookbag on my back, I have to run.

Choices

2010-05-19T16:23:00.000-05:00

I started this blog a bit ago but after talking to a dear friend decided I needed to go about it a different way.

Here is the deal....I'm having a hard time accepting the way I physically look. OK, so I've gone through a cancer treatment. Lost both breasts...and I survived it! Why isn't it enough?

I hate the way I look. My hair is coming in - and it IS blond. Don't listen to the family members trying to convince me it is really gray! Not true!! Right now it is super short and spiky. Might be cute had I not gained so much weight.

I tried on an adorable sleeveless blouse this morning. Does NOT work with the fake boobs. The bra I wear that hold them shows way too much. Back to the darned t-shirts.

My weight weighs heavy on my mind. (Yes, pun intended). I started a diet last week and gained 3 pounds. Hmmmm....I think my body has oppositional defiance disorder. UGH! OK, I also fell off my shoe last week. Got a new pair of those "step-ups" that are suppose to help trim the legs and rear end. Fell off of them, sprained my ankle and couldn't take walks like I had planned. I'm a dork. :o)

Choices....I was told I needed to make CHOICES. The choice to feel like crap or the choice to go forward....be strong....get over it and live up to my real potential. Basically quit feeling sorry for myself - which I have been doing.

That is what I will try to do. It isn't easy, let me tell you. But I'm going to try!

Camping seaon 2010!

2010-05-15T13:38:00.000-05:00

I am SO EXCITED!! Camping season 2010 has started! A year ago Perry and I braved the Mother's Day weekend chills and went camping. This year we decided to wait a couple weeks. The weekend of the 21st we will be off camping! The tent is now set up for tonight. Bon fire and fun will be a guarantee!

More photos of Anna and JT at Prom!

2010-05-15T10:19:00.000-05:00

Here are a couple of the photos taken by the photographer at Anna's prom!

Sad day

2010-05-14T20:01:00.001-05:00

A few days ago we lost a dear friend to a very aggressive cancer. Dale and his wife are friends that we met because of the Bassets. What a wonderful couple. Today was Dale's memorial service. I spent a great deal of time thinking about him. He was diagnosed at about the time I finished chemo. It really hit me in the heart.

Perry and I have their two basset hounds for a couple days. Julie thought it best to have them go somewhere during the memorial so she didn't have to worry about them. We were honored to help her out. I think about the "what if it were me" thing. You know how it goes. If it were me I know I would want to make sure my hounds were safe and being loved and cared for. Its the very least we could do for such a special man and special woman.

Thank you for being our friend, Dale! We miss you!

Gotta love those honest doctors!

2010-05-03T20:30:00.000-05:00

I had my first follow up appointment with Dr. Garino (my oncologist). It was a pretty good appointment! Mostly good news and a tid bit of sort-of-kind of bad news (although not THAT bad). You'll see!

My blood work is superb! Everything physically has gotten back to where it needs to be. We spent some time talking about fatigue. Afterall, if I'm all done with chemo and my blood work is good why am I so tired? Simple! My body is working over time to get to the point where it is okay! Rest rest and more rest. (Oh sure).

We went over the path report from my ovary removal and it shows nothing more than plain old regular looking ovarian cells. YIPPY!

I get to have the port removed. Alright!!! I HATE it! I'd rather have blood draws done from my arm anyway. Not to mention the fact that Cailin likes to hold onto my port when I hold her. That is not very comfortable for me. LOL

I have a bone density scan at the end of this week. I'll have them annually now for the next 5 years.

Today was day 1 of 1825 days total of taking Arimidex. Arimidex is a hormone treatment given to postmenopausal women to reduce a recurrence of breast cancer by lowering the amount of estrogen produced by the body. It's a 5 year regime.

Side effects: softening of the bone (therefore the need for the bone density scans). Increased risk of ischemic heart disease (lovely). Hotflashes (are you kidding me? Can they get any worse?), joint pain (UGH), weakness, mood changes, pain, back pain, sore throat, nausea and vomiting, rash, depression, high blood pressure, osteoporosis, fractures, swelling of arms/legs, insomnia, and headache. Poor Perry! :o) OK, so these are just the possible effects and of course not everyone experiences them.

OK - the "not so good news" but kind of good news in the end. And this is where the honesty of a good doctor comes into play. And this is where the embarrassment on my part comes in. "Lisa, you need to lose weight." There - she said it. And I've known it for years. Only one of my dearest friends has said this to me recently. And it was more appreciated than anything I have heard in a long time. Just shows how much she really cares about the whole me!

The next question was, "do you want to do this yourself or do you need help?" Well, I'm 45, have known for many years I need to lose weight and have not yet done it. Let's see....

So, on Friday I go in to the oncology office to start working with the nutritionist. She also recommended walking and weight training. LOL Are you picturing this? The great thought of taking a dog for a walk won't work. They are all old and walk slower than I do!

I'll let you all now what happens! I'm tired just thinking about it!!

Cailin and the Hounds

2010-05-01T13:11:00.000-05:00

Snickers (our 12 year old diabetic basset) adores Cailin! We let Cailin lay on the floor (supervised, of course) and Snickers is sure to be close by!

I love Saturdays!

2010-05-01T12:21:00.000-05:00

What a great easy going day! Perry and I took a very leisurely stroll to Caribou Coffee this morning. Took us just over an hour to go about 6 blocks. Not out fault! We have the poky-paced Snickers with us! She didn't get a treat at Caribou (being diabetic she does not need extra treats) so decided to walk as slow as she could on the way home.

Anna is at Camp Ripley for the weekend. Even though she isn't around much anyway I always miss her when she's gone. Maybe its not so much that she is gone as much as it is she is at a drill weekend....another sign that she is growing up! She leaves for basic training in July. Not sure how I'm going to manage her being gone!

Perry is out doing yard work. To be honest - I'm having a tough time keeping up with the housework. The kids and Perry help out a great deal, don't get me wrong. But no one can do it as well as me! LOL During chemo and after the surgeries I had a hard time keeping up. Now? Its just hard to really care when I know we are moving in a couple months. In fact...only 2 months from now! It breaks my heart that we are losing the home we love so dearly. BUT - I thank God each day that we have a place to go because of the kindness of a friend! So, I keep looking at the good and turning a cheek to the bad. But I still don't feel like cleaning! :o)

So, today I am just sitting her playing with the computer. I'll enjoy a glass of wine (or two). Feeling happy about my life. I have a job I love! I have a great family (even though none of my kids seem to be willing to move out)....what more can I ask for??

Mixed Emotions

2010-05-01T11:25:00.000-05:00

Today is a day full of contrasting emotions. Yesterday afternoon some dear friends celebrating the birth of their second son! Callum Liam Holder was born yesterday. He is very healthy and he and mom are doing wonderfully!

Yesterday evening I received the sad news that another dear friend lost her husband to a very aggressive and fast moving cancer. Just 3 months ago he was out shoveling the driveway. And now he is gone.

I've gone from feeling the joy of a new life to the sorrow of the loss of live. Amazing how the circle of life goes on.

To Callum - God bless you and welcome to the world! You are so lucky to have the family you have been born into!

To Dale - forever will you be in my heart. Your love for your family and the hounds will be in our memories.

My first day hatless!

2010-04-27T11:23:00.001-05:00

I decided to just ditch the hat and bandanna and let it all hang out. Of course I really don't have anything to hang out! I should have one of the kids at the school measure my hair to see how long it is. "They" say hair grows 1/4 inch per month. If that is true it should be almost 3/4 inch long.

The most interesting thing was the reaction of the children. Most of the little ones exclaimed, "Miss Lisa! You cut your hair!" They never really understood why I was wearing a hat or bandanna and the last time they saw my hair it was longer. The older kids (4th grade and up) got it for the most part and were very supportive of my decision to go without head cover. In fact, I even had a few styling suggestions! My favorite is to dye it fire engine red and let it grow....the tips would be red and the rest blond!